Before most of my full service weddings I spend time looking at the photographer’s work. Not to vet them, not to judge their style, not to decide whether I like it. They were hired by my client who already loves their work and that’s all that needs to be said about that.
I look at their work because I want to design for how they shoot.
That distinction matters and I want to explain it because it gets at something important about what it actually means to work as a team on a wedding day.
The planner is the one who brings it all together
First, a clarification on how this actually works because I think couples sometimes imagine their vendors are all independently finding each other on Instagram and forming dream teams organically.
For full service weddings, I require a planner. Not as a preference but as a requirement. The reason is simple: a planner is the one who holds the entire production together. They know the timeline, the floor plan, the vendor load-in windows, the family dynamics, the things that need to happen in a specific order for the day to flow. Without that central coordination, the best vendors in the world are just a group of talented people working next to each other instead of with each other.
The planner is usually also the one who brought us into the team in the first place. They have florists they trust and photographers they love and when those two get paired on a wedding it’s because the planner saw something in both of us that fit their client. That’s not Instagram matchmaking. That’s a professional who knows their craft putting together a team they believe in.
So when you see a photographer and a florist appearing together across multiple weddings in a portfolio, that’s usually a planner who keeps making the same call because it keeps working.
What I’m actually looking for when I study a photographer’s work
Every photographer has a visual language. Things they’re drawn to, ways they move through a space, specific kinds of moments they chase. And once you spend enough time looking at someone’s galleries you start to understand what makes them excited and what they’re going to do with whatever you put in front of them.
Some photographers are obsessed with detail shots and tablescapes. They get low and close and capture the individual flowers, the way a candle reflects off a glass, the texture of the linen next to the arrangement. When I know I’m working with a photographer like that I make sure there are intentional moments across the tables where the design details, the florals, the candles, the vessels, are all within range of each other and positioned in a direction that photographs well. I’m designing for the close-up.
Some photographers love shadow and movement. They’ll chase the way late afternoon light cuts across a ceremony arch, the way a bouquet catches a breeze, the silhouette of a design against a lit backdrop. That tells me my designs should be visually dynamic. Reaching, flowing, dimensional. Give them angles worth chasing.
Some photographers do a lot of overhead shots, flat lays, aerial views of the reception space. That means the arrangements and the table design need to read well from above too, not just at eye level. Scale, spacing, how things relate to each other across the full table, those decisions change when I know there’s going to be a drone or a ladder involved.
The timeline thing is where it really matters
Here’s a very specific example of why this communication saves everyone.
Some photographers like to use the ceremony space as a backdrop for family portraits after the ceremony. Which is beautiful. A fully designed ceremony arch or floral installation is a stunning backdrop and it makes complete sense that a photographer would want to use it.
But that same ceremony design was probably supposed to be broken down and repurposed during cocktail hour into the reception space. That flip, taking ceremony elements apart and rebuilding them somewhere else, takes time and people. And if family portraits are happening in that same space for the next forty five minutes, my team can’t start the flip until the photographer is done.
When I know that ahead of time, we can plan for it. Extra team members on site. A different sequencing for what gets moved when. Maybe certain elements stay at ceremony intentionally because the photographer is going to use them and we design the reception around that. We make it work because we planned for it.
When nobody communicated that until the day of, it becomes a scramble. And scrambles show up in the final product.
That’s a planner conversation. That’s a vendor timeline conversation. That’s exactly why having a planner coordinating all of this matters as much as it does.
We all want the same thing
The client chose their photographer because they love how they shoot. They chose their florist because they love how they design. A planner brought us both together because she believed we’d make each other look good.
So the goal is simple. I want the photographer to walk into a space I designed and immediately see things worth capturing. I want them to have moments that show off their style and their eye because when their photos are incredible, the florals in those photos are incredible too. We are literally each other’s best advertising.
That’s not competition. That’s collaboration. And when it works, the final gallery is something the client looks at for the rest of their life thinking about how completely and perfectly that day was captured.
If you’re planning a full service wedding and you want a florist who thinks about the full picture from the very beginning, let’s talk. And yes, send me your photographer’s Instagram. I’ll take a look before we even get started.
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